Wednesday, December 8, 2010
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Friday, November 12, 2010
Monday, October 4, 2010
HOW TO BE A GOOD LISTENER
Men vs women
Well, on a lighter tone, watch this fragment from friends and how differently men and women react to the same piece of information.
TALE OF TWO BRAINS Well, I had posted this video some time ago, but it's so good that I don't want you to miss it or try fo find it on the old posts. Watch, listen, think and enjoy!
Well, on a lighter tone, watch this fragment from friends and how differently men and women react to the same piece of information.
TALE OF TWO BRAINS Well, I had posted this video some time ago, but it's so good that I don't want you to miss it or try fo find it on the old posts. Watch, listen, think and enjoy!
Saturday, October 2, 2010
Deborah Tannen
Deborah Tannen's offical website.
Watch this video from you Tube.
"Can't We Talk?" (condensed from: You Just Don't Understand)
Communication is a continual balancing act, juggling the conflicting needs for intimacy and independence. To survive in the world, we have to act in concert with others, but to survive as ourselves, rather than simply as cogs in a wheel, we have to act alone.
Deborah Tannen
Each person's life is lived as a series of conversations.
Deborah Tannen
Each underestimates her own power and overestimates the other's.
Deborah Tannen
For most women, the language of conversation is primarily a language of rapport: a way of establishing connections and negotiating relationships.
Deborah Tannen
Relationships are made of talk - and talk is for girls and women.
Deborah Tannen
The biggest mistake is believing there is one right way to listen, to talk, to have a conversation - or a relationship.
Deborah Tannen
We all know we are unique individuals, but we tend to see others as representatives of groups.
Deborah Tannen
We tend to look through language and not realize how much power language has.
Deborah Tannen
Watch this video from you Tube.
"Can't We Talk?" (condensed from: You Just Don't Understand)
Communication is a continual balancing act, juggling the conflicting needs for intimacy and independence. To survive in the world, we have to act in concert with others, but to survive as ourselves, rather than simply as cogs in a wheel, we have to act alone.
Deborah Tannen
Each person's life is lived as a series of conversations.
Deborah Tannen
Each underestimates her own power and overestimates the other's.
Deborah Tannen
For most women, the language of conversation is primarily a language of rapport: a way of establishing connections and negotiating relationships.
Deborah Tannen
Relationships are made of talk - and talk is for girls and women.
Deborah Tannen
The biggest mistake is believing there is one right way to listen, to talk, to have a conversation - or a relationship.
Deborah Tannen
We all know we are unique individuals, but we tend to see others as representatives of groups.
Deborah Tannen
We tend to look through language and not realize how much power language has.
Deborah Tannen
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